Originally posted to Instagram on May 2, 2024.
Be honest, Mama. Do you have any hobbies outside of Netflix-bingeing and social scrolling?
I get it that you’re tired and busted and you need to take care of yourself in the time you have off from being a mom. I’m all for self-care!
But self-care and relaxation needs to be balanced with spending time on your passions. The things you are passionate about – your interests and hobbies – are what make you YOU. It’s what makes you a truly unique person who has a purpose other than being a mom.
Now I know you are thinking 1 of 3 things.
1️⃣ I have no passions.
💫 All of us has a passion or interest – we just might have to dig in and discover what it is. What would you want to be “made” into if you could be on MTV’s Made (yes, that Made from the early 2000s)? Or if you had a week completely off from all responsibility, how would you fill your time? Find something that interests you and make time every day to spend doing that thing. Which leads to the next point…
2️⃣ I have a passion, but I can’t pursue it because I don’t have the time or energy.
💫 YOU HAVE TIME. You are just choosing to prioritize other things instead. Get up earlier, multi-task while you do chores, or stop scrolling social mindlessly for a few minutes every day.
3️⃣ I have a passion, but I can’t pursue it because I can’t get away from the house.
💫 Find ways to pursue your passion from home! Maybe you can listen to audiobooks about it. Maybe you can start a blog teaching others how to do it. Or maybe you can start teaching your kids about your interest! This allows you to still do what you love, just in different ways that fit your new lifestyle. And when you do get an opportunity to get out of the house – make sure you take advantage of the time to pursue your passion!
Pursuing your interests is what makes you interesting, Mama! Don’t feel guilty for taking the time to be you. You are the person your family needs most – not just mom-bot!
I would love to help you discover your passion that you can pursue even as a busy mom. Let’s get cracking! 😄
XO – Bailee